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A Mom Cave to Rival Any Man Cave

Posted by preyh Feb 22, 2012

If dads can have their “man caves,” then moms should also have a place to retreat and relax, right? Enter the growing mom cave trend. The trouble is, most advice on putting together a mom cave centers on carving out a tiny space: a window seat, a shared room, even a closet! Say, what? Men get entire rooms, a run of the basement or that second garage and women get … a nook? I’m proposing some new thinking on this emerging trend: some mom cave ideas to rival any man cave.

 

 

Claim your territory

To begin, you need a “cave-worthy” space. Consider a windowed enclosure over the patio for a beachy Hamptons feel. Bump out a second bathroom to make room for a dressing room, a seating area and an extra deep tub. Convert a storage shed into a private garden retreat. Or, replace that aging garage with a two-story number (guess who claims the second floor as their personal studio space?).

 

Trick it out

Next, dress it up with what you love. Man caves make serious investments in tech and sports gear; mom caves should do no less. Install a flat screen TV and surround sound speakers for those marathon Mad Men sessions; lay down a hardwood floor and add light dimmers for an in-home yoga studio; or install cubbies, a standing desk and plenty of task lighting for the ultimate crafts room. And after you spend precious time and money creating your own personal space, make sure you protect it with personal property coverage. Don’t hold back (the boys never do). Here’s some side-by-side thinking if you need an extra dose:

 

Man cave theme: Cigar lounge or tailgate party

Mom cave theme: Hamptons beach retreat

 

Man cave seating: Leather recliner

Mom cave seating: Velvet loveseat

 

Man cave diversions: Darts. Pool. Air hockey.

Mom cave diversions: Magazines. Crafts. Yoga mats.

 

Man cave drinks: Full bar with a beer keg

Mom cave drinks: Juice and wine bar

 

Man cave tech: Flat screen. Sound system. Sound proofing.

Mom cave tech: Flat screen. Sound system. Sound (toddler!) proofing.

 

 

Want more ideas? Check out this Pinterest board. Mom caves of all kinds are gaining in popularity, too. Check this preview of a show on HGTV called, of course, Mom Caves.

 

Whichever way you go, don’t forget to catalog all the changes. Beyond the obvious build out, everything from the artwork and furniture to the laptops and other tech gear should be added to your home inventory. Take pictures of your new retreat, then compile receipts and stash them with your insurance files or keep a convenient digital record of it all.

 

Enforce the zone

My last bit of advice: keep it sacred. This is a mom cave we’re talking about here. I suggest a deadbolt.

 

Do you have a mom cave? Do you want one? Share your thoughts!

Ready for Robo-Cars?

Posted by b_oneill Feb 21, 2012

Human error causes 33,000 vehicle accident deaths and 1.2 million car injuries each year. Can a computerized car really eliminate human error and make the roads safer?

 

driverless-car-infographic-full.pngGoogle recently announced that the company is testing self-driving cars – called autonomous cars by Google – on California highways. Initial tests have already demonstrated that self-driving cars are largely workable, eliminating human error while also increasing fuel efficiency and seamless coexisting on the road with conventional vehicles driven by people. Sebastion Thrun, the director of Google’s autonomous car project, announced that autonomous cars had completed 200,000 miles of driving without a single accident.

 

However, before these cars go into mass production or Google even announces price quotes on cars, questions about legal liability, insurance regulations, and artificial intelligence challenges remain. For example, human drivers can easily recognize a traffic officer telling drivers to take an alternative route due to construction.

 

And thanks to human instinct, we know that if we see a ball roll out into the middle of a neighborhood street, a child will likely be close behind. Autonomous vehicles lack this level of instinct, reasoning and response.

 

When was the last time you drove exactly the speed limit? Did you roll through a stop sign this morning on your way to work? Human drivers frequently bend traffic rules, which could lead to frustration for passengers in a polite, law-abiding autonomous vehicle. After all, there’s no need to sit forever at a four-way stop if you’re the only car there. Without the ability to reason, passengers could be a very long (and unnecessary) wait at the stop sign!

 

Legal liability and insurance regulations may pose an even bigger challenge to autonomous vehicles. Can car manufacturers be held responsible in the event of an accident? What about the cost of car insurance – a system that currently is based partially on driving records? And finally, if a police officer pulls over an autonomous vehicle, who gets the ticket?

 

The Chief Counsel of the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration, O. Kevin Vincent, said that the federal government currently does not have enough information to make a determination regarding the regulation of driverless vehicles. And while autonomous cars may still be years away from hitting the mass market, thanks to Google’s lobbying efforts, however, some states are already beginning to legalize these vehicles.

 

Nevada passed a law last year legalizing driverless vehicles, and similar laws have been introduced in the Florida and Hawaii legislatures. With Google’s home base in Silicon Valley, a California law is reported to be in the works.

 

Car safety ratings and fuel efficiency are two major factors potential car owners consider before making a purchase. As initial tests indicate, driverless cars would enjoy extremely high car safety ratings, as well as increased fuel efficiency. But would these benefits be enough to convince car owners to chose an automated ride over a self-controlled vehicle? Tell us – would you “drive” an autonomous car?

 

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Infographic courtesy DanielRosen.com

Are you still using traditional incandescent bulbs in your home? If you haven’t made the switch to energy-saving light bulbs yet, don’t worry. Like you, I knew that switching to compact fluorescent light bulbs (CFLs) could result in significant energy savings, but I wasn’t sure where to get started. Between wattage ratings, lumen ratings and coloration, I felt overwhelmed just looking at the light bulb aisle! Good news: even if you’re like me, picking the brightest, most efficient bulb is actually pretty easy. Follow these tips to get started.

 

Q: Does switching to energy efficient bulbs really make a difference?

iStock-Lightbulbs-2.JPGA: Absolutely! Just swapping out a few bulbs in your home could save you up to $500 a year. Now, imagine the impact on energy use if EVERY home in the United States did this. According to the U.S. Department of Energy, if every home replaced just one incandescent light bulb with an energy efficient bulb, the energy savings would be enough to power 3 million homes for one year! That’s the equivalent of $650 million in annual energy cost savings. Swapping out bulbs is also good for the environment – replacing one bulb in each American home would result in 9 billion pounds of greenhouse gas emission savings. That’s the equivalent to taking 800,000 cars off the road!

 

Q: How do I select the right energy-saving light bulbs for the light fixtures in my home?

A: To get started, you will need to determine the wattage of your existing incandescent light bulbs. A watt is a measurement of energy consumption. Your bulb also produces a minimum light output, known as a lumen. When switching from traditional, incandescent bulbs to energy-efficient CFLs, you will need to look at both the wattage and lumen measurements for your light bulbs. For example, your bedside lamp at home may currently use 60-watt incandescent bulbs.

 

This means that the lamp provides a light output of 800 lumens. You can enjoy this same light output (800 lumens) with only a 13-watt energy efficient CFL. That’s a pretty big energy savings! When selecting a CFL replacement, look for the wattage and lumen ratings. Many bulbs include both a “soft white wattage” number (that’s the equivalent of your 60-watt traditional bulb) as well as a CFL wattage (13-watt). The lumen value will be the same, 800 lumens.

 

Q: Do CFLs emit a harsh, bright light?

A: This is one of the most common myths about CFLs, and a big reason why homeowners (myself included) are reluctant to switch out bulbs in light fixtures for the home. Sure, harsh lighting has its place in office buildings and classrooms, but when it comes to my bedside table, I want a nice, soft reading light. In reality, CFLs emit a wide range of light. Some bulbs do provide a bright white light, while others offer a softer light similar to traditional incandescent bulbs. What gives? CFLs are rated on the Kelvin scale. Bulbs closer to 2700K emit softer lights, while those at the higher end (6500K) emit a brighter, harsher light. When selecting your light, look for the Kelvin rating.

 

 

Q: My old incandescent light bulbs have not yet burned out. Should I wait until they do or replace them immediately?

A: There’s no need to wait! According to the U.S. Department of Energy, replacing your old incandescent bulbs is an energy-smart choice. For each bulb you replace, you will save up to $65 per year. Swap out a few bulbs in your living room and bedroom, and you could be looking at over $500 a year in savings! Save your old incandescent bulbs for use in a closet, where they would only be used for a few minutes at a time.

 

Q: I am having difficulty finding CFLs that work with my dimmer switches and recessed lighting. Where should I look?

A: A limited number of CFLs currently work with dimmer switches and recessed lighting fixtures (called ‘recessed cans’). These are available at major home improvement stores and can easily be ordered online, as well.

Searching for a creative recipe to make use of last night’s leftovers? Forgot to adjust the thermostat when you left for work this morning? Did your kids leave the garage door open again? If you own a smartphone, then the solution is right at your fingertips. From smart refrigerators to wall-mounted temperature sensors, new appliances and home technology introduced at the 2012 International Consumer Electronics Show allows virtual management via smartphone apps. These home improvements are designed to help make homes safer and more energy-efficient.

 

iStock-Smartphone.jpgSmart Home

The new home technology advancements are made possible in part by the rise of smartphone ownership. Today, the Pew Research Center's Internet and American Life Project estimates that 35 percent of American adults own a smartphone. Since consumers have smartphones with them nearly everywhere they go, it’s easy for a smartphone to act as a central home control panel, integrating home management apps into a consumer’s regular app lineup. This number is expected to grow dramatically as smartphone prices continue to drop. As more Americans own smartphones, consumer analysts predict the ownership of “smartphone home technology” will also increase.

 

John Burke is the general manager of Motorola Mobility Holdings Inc., a company that builds technology for cable companies and wireless service providers. Burke predicts that the rise of smartphone ownership, coupled with bundled service providers, will help spark the adoption of smart home technologies. Parks Associates, a consumer technology research firm, agrees, estimating that by 2014, more than 10 million U.S. households will have a remote home monitoring and control system.

 

"We've seen all the major operators in the Americas putting home security, control and monitoring in their offerings,” Burke said. A universal control for home security and monitoring is one of the most important homeowner safety tips. A smartphone allows controls for everything from the garage door to the thermostat to be in one easy-to-access place.

 

Smart Appliances

Many gadget-geeks can’t wait to try out some of these "smart appliances" in their homes:

 

Home energy monitor: Reliant, a Houston-based energy company, recently gave away 10,000 Reliant e-Sense Home Energy Monitors to early-adoption customers. The monitors take the guesswork out of managing home energy costs, allowing customers to precisely track and adjust energy usage. Other home energy solutions introduced at CES include a wall-mounted censor that tracks when homeowners leave the house, automatically adjusting the thermostat.

 

Smartphone-controlled garage doors: A two-way garage door opener, introduced by Sears Holding Corp.'s Craftsman brand, connects homeowners with the garage door via their smartphones. A wireless router on the garage door communicates with a password-protected app on the homeowner’s smartphone, allowing the homeowner to see whether the door is open and how long it’s been open. A simple swipe across the screen can open or close the door.

 

Smart refrigerator: Using a camera phone, homeowners can scan a grocery receipt or product. The fridge’s computer then tracks its own contents and notifies owners when the milk is about to expire or what recipes (based on current ingredients) would be good for a family member’s high blood pressure. At CES, LG introduced a voice-controlled smart fridge that allows homeowners to even check their fridge’s contents via a smartphone app. The fridge is part of LG’s new series of smart appliances, including a smart oven that monitors baking via mobile devices, a washing machine and vacuum cleaner. Sadly, the vacuum cleaner still requires a human to operate it.

 

What smart technology would you most like to see in your home?

The Classic Cars of James Bond

Posted by b_oneill Feb 16, 2012

From Sean Connery and his Sunbeam Alpine to Daniel Craig and his Aston Martin DBS, every Bond needs a high-tech car with a license to kill. And when things don’t work out quite as planned, a few upgrades from Q’s lab – an ejector seat, cannons under the chassis or anti-aircraft missiles – are all Bond needs to take out the bad guys, save the girl and drive off into the sunset. His auto insurance rates must be sky high!

 

Welcome to Her Majesty's Secret Service

Now, Bond buffs and car lovers can get up close and personal with 50 vehicles made famous by the Bond series. With the latest James Bond film set for release this fall, England’s National Motor Museum is commemorating half a century of Bond movies, launching a Bond-themed exhibit celebrating the world's rarest cars. Also featured are the actual motorcycles, boats and helicopters used in the films, including the crocodile submarine from Octopussy.

 

2006-Aston-Martin-DBS-Casino-Royale.jpgThe “Bond in Motion” exhibit at the Beaulieu, England museum is the first of its kind – bringing together an impressive collection of classic Bond film cars. From the 1964 Aston Martin DB5 to the 1937 Phantom III Rolls-Royce, exhibit visitors can see the world's rarest cars up close. These include “Wet Nellie,” the Lotus Esprit S made famous in The Spy Who Loved Me for its ability to fold up the wheels and transform into submarine mode.

 

Visitors can also catch a glimpse of Bond’s most famous cars, including The BMW 750iL from Tomorrow Never Dies, the Ford Mustang from Diamonds Are Forever and the Jaguar XKR (complete with its special effects weaponry) from Die Another Day.

 

Film production company Eon Productions, which produced the James Bond film series, is part owner to the car rights. Other famous cars in the exhibit are on loan through Aston Martin and the Ian Fleming Foundation.

 

Amazing, if improbable, vehicles have long been Bond’s secret weapons for success. Goldfinger’s Aston Martin DB5 – with its machine guns, bulletproof shield, radar and ejector seat – is perhaps the most quintessential Bond car. And while Bond had a brief dalliance with BMW in the late 1990s, Daniel Craig’s darker, brooding Bond is back with the muscular, understated elegance of Aston Martin. What car should Bond drive next? Comment below!

 

For more cool cars, check out our 'My Car' board on Pinterest.

 

 

* photo courtesy of www.seriouswheels.com

8 Things You Learn in Parenthood

Posted by preyh Feb 15, 2012

People without children of their own often remark to me that "kids are a learning experience," usually after one of my kids does something adorably ridiculous like emptying a jar of pasta sauce onto the living room carpet. In response, I smile and nod, biting my tongue about how drastic the understatement is. Here are just a few of the life lessons I've been taught so far.

 

iStock-Parenthood-Twins.jpgThe Amazing Shrinking Domicile

If you were lucky enough to purchase a dream house, dream car or even just a dream diaper bag before your baby arrived, you probably wondered how you'd fill all the space (I know I did). Boy, did that "extra room" evaporate under the volume of clothes, toys and unidentifiable paraphernalia that started arriving during the baby shower and just never stopped.

 

Lesson learned #1: You can never have enough space or be too prepared with a baby on board. 

By the Seat of Your Pants. Regardless of whether you read every last parenting book or you decided to more or less wing it, chances are you had some idea that you'd know what you were doing when the time came; an idea that promptly flew out the window for me when my beautiful little monsters took up residence. But everything turned out okay because I realized that I actually was capable of dealing with marbles in the garbage disposal or toys down the toilet. Plus, having a homeowners insurance policy helps give me peace of mind. 

 

Lesson learned #2: Admitting that you might not know what you’re doing but that you’re doing your best isn’t too bad after all. 

Drive Me Crazy. The job of driving has never been harder: I can't be the only person who's endured an in-car screaming session caused by a dropped "lucky penny" or the distribution of the wrong flavor of juice. Still, you'll find yourself battling through it somehow and end up as a safer driver than your pre-child self could ever imagine.  Not to mention the fact that you’ll become much more aware of other drivers. I can see a teenager texting and driving from three miles away. And never again will I talk on the phone while driving – I can’t believe I ever did!

 

Lesson learned #3: Keeping harmony in the car deserves the Nobel Peace Prize.

The Sands of Time. When you're up at midnight trying to get your aspiring opera singer to fall asleep, the minutes might drag; but you'll find the rest of your time with your child fast-forwarding at warp speed. Before you know it, you'll be shelling out big bucks for college. All you can do is take plenty of pictures and videos - the more embarrassing, the better - and hang on for the ride.

 

Lesson learned #4: The days are long but the years go fast so cherish every moment like it’s your last.

Unconditional Love. If a friend suffered the occasional five alarm diaper explosion, spewed the contents of your best culinary creations onto the table, and halted the functioning of your household because of a refusal to put on shoes, the friendship would probably die pretty quickly. It would be a lot to deal with even from a much-loved spouse. But when it comes to my kids, I've happily dealt with all this and more, just because.

 

Lesson learned #5: Motherhood is one of the greatest gifts. Sure it’s crazy and messy at times, but in the end well worth it.

Bye-Bye Bubble Bath. If you enjoy taking the occasional peaceful moment by yourself, you might want to stock up before your baby arrives. Because afterwards, you'll never get a moment to yourself again. Never. So don’t count on being able to take a leisurely soak in the tub. And you can pretty much forget about candles too.

 

Lesson learned #6: Embrace and take advantage of being together 24/7 with your family. Your kids will be out of the house more quickly than you'd like.

My Precious. Before we had kids, there were certain possessions that I really preferred to stay in a whole, undamaged form. That's not a realistic expectation now that I've got the equivalent of hurricanes on legs living in my household. Your furniture, your pets, your jewelry, and especially your electronics; none of it will ever be safe from little fingers bent on destruction.

 

This gave me added incentive to stop buying nice things now and put the money toward a college fund. Saving money is so important when you have little ones, especially a set of twins that will be entering college at the same time. All it takes is a few dollars to start. Think of it like any other planned expense and before you know it the kids will be grown – and so will your college savings plan.

 

Lesson learned #7: Helping your child secure their future is one of the best gifts you can give.

To Sleep, Perchance to Dream. Yeah, perchance to get more than half of the recommended daily total of forty winks. If this is your first experience with child-rearing, you might think that the worst is over once your little one figures out how to sleep through the night. Not so. According to a National Sleep Foundation survey, you can pretty much count on never sleeping well again.

 

Lesson learned #8: Keep lots of coffee on hand!

Tweeting pics from your tropical vacation? Sharing your weekend plans on Facebook? You may want to think twice before you hit “Post.” Sure, it’s fun to share snapshots of your margaritas on the beach (and make the folks back home jealous), but advertising your vacation on social networking sites is a recipe for theft and burglary. And it’s not just your vacation plans that can cause problems. Over-sharing details (“Watching the game on our new 60-inch LCD TV!”) gives would-be burglars tempting information about your new electronics and can even lead to identity theft.

 

iStock-Social-Media.jpgLess than a decade ago, answering machine messages like “You’ve reached the Jones’ but we can’t take your call, we’re hitting the slopes this weekend!” could move your home to the top of a burglar’s target list. Now, Facebook and Twitter postings do the same.

 

Over the last few years, anecdotal evidence increasingly points to a connection between sharing whereabouts on social media with an increase in burglaries. And while there’s no hard data measuring this spike, safety experts from the United States, Canada, Europe and Australia have all warned social media users to re-think their sharing habits. A 2010 Australian study found 16 percent of users update social media daily with their whereabouts. Another study by the Association of British Insurers found that 40 percent of users post holiday plans online and more than 30 percent share their ordinary weekend plans.

 

Social media is a great way to stay in touch with old and new friends. By taking a few precautions, you can still share those margarita vacation photos – and find your house and belongings just as you left them when you return.

 

Check your social media privacy settings.

Facebook has made a number of privacy changes in the last year, and your settings may no longer be keeping you safe. From the top menu bar, click ‘Home’ -> ‘Privacy Settings.’ Be sure you are ONLY sharing with your “Friend” list – and are not posting anything that can be seen by “Public” (i.e., the entire world).

 

Control your Facebook tag settings.

Even if you lockdown your profile from the whole world, friends can still tag you in posts or photos—exposing you to potential security risks. Manage how others tag you in posts by checking your tag settings under “How Tags Work.” Turn on “Tag Review” and edit your “Maximum Timeline Visibility”. You can choose from a pre-set list (see instructions for creating one below), or simply limit a few people – that way a potential burglar won’t see that your friend just tagged you on the beach in Jamaica.

 

Clean up your friend list.

If you’re like me, you likely have high school classmates, casual acquaintances and former colleagues that you have not spoken to in years taking up space on your friend list. While Facebook is great for making big announcements, remember that everything you say is a potential privacy invasion. Advertising your travel details or expensive purchases to 400 of your “nearest and dearest” is neither smart nor safe.

 

Take a few minutes right now to create a “Close Friends” list.

On the left side of your home screen, click “Lists” (it will appear after favorites, apps and groups).

Click the ‘Create List’ button. Type in a name for your list and add your closest friends. You can also create separate lists for professional colleagues, friends on your weekend Skee Ball team, or any group with which you’d like to share limited information.

Now, when you post a photo or status update, you can quickly choose the appropriate list and limit with whom you share information.

 

Think twice before you post or check-in.
Whether you’re checking in on Foursquare or tweeting photos from the beach, once you put it out in cyberspace, you lose control. Checking in can be fun, but doing so is also a public declaration of your whereabouts. Use common sense, and be sure your check-ins are only shared with a select group of friends, rather than publicly displayed. Emailing a photo, sending a text message and picking up the phone are safer, personal and more meaningful ways to communicate. Remember, there's no such thing as "total social media privacy.”

Get ready for more pain at the pump (and in your wallet) this year. Reports suggest that gas prices in 2012 again may climb above $4 per gallon in much of the country. While skyrocketing gas prices are hardly the best way to ring in the New Year, you can keep rising costs in check—and even save money on gas)—by making simple changes in your driving habits. Here’s what to do:

 

iStock-Gas-Prices.jpgAccelerate less, drive more. Thanks to the simple laws of physics, cars use the most gas as they accelerate. Gentle braking—or avoiding the brakes all together—is the best way to prevent unnecessary acceleration and manage gas consumption. In stop-and-go traffic, leave extra distance between your car and the car in front of you. Doing so will allow the car to gently (and safely) coast, which is preferable to slamming on the brakes and then flooring the accelerator to start moving again.

 

Slow down. Speeding on the highway can be a tough habit to break, but it’s worth every penny to do so. In fact, slowing from 70mph to 65mph can reduce fuel consumption by up to 7 percent. And decreasing speeds from 65mph to 55mph can save you even more.

 

Empty out your trunk. Driving around with extra gear in your trunk weighs down your car. Carrying your golf clubs? Storing extra suitcases? If you truly want to get serious about how to save gas when driving, empty everything out aside from your emergency roadside kit.

 

Remove your luggage rack. Unless you are currently using your ski, bicycle or luggage rack, dismount it. Even the most aerodynamic racks add wind resistance, which decreases your fuel efficiency.

 

Rethink your commute. The more time you spend in stop and go traffic, the more gas you’ll burn... and the more money you'll be spending. Rethink your daily commute and choose secondary roads to avoid heavy traffic or stoplights. Remember, the shortest route is not always the most fuel-efficient.

 

Downsize your rental. A smaller car will always have greater fuel economy thanks to its smaller mass. You may not be able to trade in your family car at home, but if you’re traveling and have the option to rent, opt for a smaller vehicle. You’ll have just as much fun on vacation, and you’ll have a little extra change in your pocket to enjoy the sights.

 

Straighten up. Improper alignment not only wears your tires faster, but it also causes your engine to work harder—burning more gas. The next time you get your oil changed, ask to have your tires aligned.

 

Check your tire pressure. Under-inflated tires, like misaligned tires, cause your engine to burn more gas. In fact, one out of every four cars may be driving with slightly deflated tires. Even minor under-inflation can cost up to six cents per gallon in lost efficiency. Check your owner’s manual for the proper inflation.

 

Drive less. Spend every day behind the wheel? Rethinking your driving habits can help you save money. When running errands, park your car in one central place and walk to different stores, rather than driving around the same shopping center. Make one day each week your “car-free” day. Walk, bike or take public transportation. Set up a weekly commute with coworkers or friends. If you’re not driving, you’re not spending money on gas!

Valentine’s Day is right around the corner and it’s hard to not get caught up in the flood of red and pink hearts and Cupid’s arrows in flight. When my husband and I first started dating, I had all sorts of ideas about what would await me on February 14—an exotic trip, fancy dinner and myself dripping in brand-new diamonds. But reality sunk in as I realized that neither of us had the funds or free time to search out such extravagant gifts. Here are a few ways I learned to manage my expectations for Valentine’s Day as our relationship matured:

 

Think realistically

The film industry is saturated with sweeping gestures—blaring a boombox outside a bedroom window, public serenades from football stadium bleachers, scaling a fire escape to declare undying love—all of which look beautiful on the big screen but aren’t something you’d encounter in everyday life. Looking to chick flicks for clues about what your significant other might surprise you with this Valentine’s Day will likely leave you disappointed. Instead, try focusing on the little things he or she does day-to-day to show their love.

 

 

Make it meaningful

Classic Valentine’s Day gifts like diamond jewelry, rose bouquets and couture perfume can add up quickly—and while they’re nice to look at, don’t always convey the importance of your relationship as well as less expensive gifts can. In lieu of something fancy, suggest that you each create a homemade gift, such as a photo album of your favorite pictures together or a personalized coupon book.

 

A few years ago, my husband (then-boyfriend) and I celebrated the occasion by re-creating our first date at home—he made a simplified version of the dinner we ate at an Italian bistro and rented a DVD of the movie we saw in the theatre. You may also want to consider combining efforts to splurge on an experience you can share, such as a couple’s cooking class or day trip to a nearby park.

 

Say it simply

Last year, we scrapped gifts altogether and each used the hour we would have spent shopping to write a list of things we love about the other person. This was so much fun—and gave me a chance to really think back on the wonderful memories we’ve shared through the years. Then, we read our lists aloud during a cozy dinner at home. I couldn’t have asked for a more perfect present—and it didn’t cost us a penny.

 

Sometimes, less truly is more. By shifting the focus from what your loved one will bring you this Valentine’s Day to what they bring to your life every day, you may find this to be your happiest couple’s holiday yet. And if he does go big for some diamond earrings, make sure those beauties are insured.

401(k) image 4.jpgWhen I first got my own place, I felt overwhelmed by the mountain of monthly bills I was responsible for. Paying for rent, cable, Internet, groceries, car insurance and student loan payments added up fast—and that’s not including my social tab! So when my company gave me the option of enrolling in its 401(k) plan, I was hesitant to opt in. The last thing on my mind was how my life would look 30 years down the road. And with so many fixed expenses, it seemed impossible to set anything aside on my entry-level salary.

 

But after talking to a family member who’s a financial adviser, I learned that it’s never too early to start saving for retirement. Here’s why:

 

 

iStock-401k-Girl.jpg1. Free Money from Your Employer

Money doesn’t grow on trees, but it can really add up when your employer sends some extra your way. Many employers will match the dollar amount you put toward your 401(k) —some match 100 percent of your contributions, but most will match a portion of what you contribute. With a match program, not only will you have more money going into your 401(k), the money you do have will accrue more interest.

 

 

2. Tax Benefits

Having a 401(k) can lower your taxable income. The contributions you make to your 401(k) happen pre-tax—the income isn’t taxed until the benefits are paid out to you later in life. This allows your money to compound more quickly, which means you save more money in the long run. (I can already see the dollar signs…)

 

 

3. Flexibility

If you change jobs, you can usually move your 401(k) over to another retirement account fairly easily. When you’re unsure of where the future will take you, like most of the 20-somethings I know, that’s a huge plus.

 

 

4. The Future Matters

You may spend a third of your life in retirement, so in order to maintain a solid standard of living, you’ll need more money than you think. Experts recommend that you start saving at least 6 percent of your salary in your 20s and increase that amount (even if just a tiny bit) every year. If you start saving now, you won’t have to set aside as much later on to reach your retirement goals.

 

 

While it seemed unimportant at first, I totally get why it makes sense to start saving for the future now. It’s about securing a future for yourself. And there’s nothing like the satisfaction of feeling young, free—and financially responsible. 

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